Grief is the most performed emotion people bring into a reading. By the time they talk to me, they've already rehearsed the story — the timeline, what they're allowed to feel, what they're “supposed to be” by now. I'm blind. I can't see how composed you are, how well you're holding it together, or how much you're managing what you show me. I read the energy of what's actually present — not the grief you've shaped into something presentable.
Four things that are separate from the story you've been telling yourself and everyone else.
The energy of the unfinished conversation
Not every connection ends cleanly, and that incompleteness has its own energetic signature. I can read what's still present versus what's actually resolved — where the energy is still alive and where it's settled. That distinction is usually the thing sitting heaviest under the surface.
The pattern underneath the grief
Loss doesn't happen in isolation. What you're grieving is shaped by the full weight of the relationship — what it meant, what it asked of you, what it left unresolved. I read the pattern underneath the grief itself: what this loss is actually asking for, not what it's "supposed to mean." That's usually different from the story being told about it.
Whether the feeling of connection is real signal or noise
A lot of people come to grief readings because they feel like the person is still somehow present — and they don't know whether to trust that or dismiss it. I read what's energetically there. If something is still alive in the connection, it shows. If the feeling is the mind filling in what it can't accept yet, that shows too. I'm not going to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to tell you what I'm picking up.
What's weighing heaviest that hasn't been said
The thing that keeps coming back at 3am. The question that doesn't have a clean answer. The thing you didn't say, or didn't get to hear. Grief accumulates around what's unspoken, and that weight has a specific shape energetically. Most people already know what it is. The reading names it.
Grief is probably the most rehearsed thing people carry into a reading. By the time someone calls me, they've already told the story dozens of times — to family, to friends, to a therapist. They've shaped it into something that sounds right, that moves at the right pace, that hits the right notes of what grief is supposed to look like. They've decided what they're allowed to feel and what they're supposed to be done feeling. I can't see any of that performance. I was born blind — I have no read on how composed you are, how raw you are, how much you're holding back. I read the energy of what's actually present. That's a different thing from the version that's been made sense of and made presentable.
People come to grief readings wanting to know what happened after. I don't work in a “messages from the dead” frame — that's not what I do and I won't pretend it is. What I do is read what's energetically present in the connection. If something is still alive there, still unresolved, still carrying weight — that shows in the energy. If it's settled, that shows too. The questions people carry into grief readings are usually about what's real: was the connection what I think it was? Is what I'm feeling real signal or am I just not ready to let go? I read what's there. I'm not going to confirm things I'm not picking up just because they're what someone needs to hear.
The thing I hear most from people after a grief reading is that I confirmed something they already knew but couldn't let themselves say — something they'd been pushing away because it felt too final, or because they weren't sure they were allowed to trust it. That's what the reading does. It cuts through the noise that grief creates — the second-guessing, the performed emotions, the distance between what you actually feel and what you're supposed to feel — and reads what's real. I can't fix what you're carrying. But I can tell you what's actually there.
Readings are available by text chat or phone. For grief and loss, phone tends to work better — it's more natural for emotional situations and easier to move through what comes up without having to find words for it first.
Text Chat Reading
Written, at your pace — good if you need to be precise about what you're asking
Write out what you're carrying. I'll respond with what I'm reading energetically — no time pressure, no back-and-forth in real time. Good if you need to be precise about what you're asking or prefer to process at your own pace.
$20 – $75
Learn More →Phone Reading
Recommended for griefReal-time, spoken — more natural for emotional situations
A live conversation. You can ask follow-up questions as things come up, and we work through whatever surfaces together. For grief, this is usually the better format — real-time reading tends to go deeper when the emotional weight is high.
$40 – $190
Learn More →Not ready for a full session?
Start with a $15 Single Card Intuitive Pull — one focused question, one honest read. A low-stakes way to see what a reading actually feels like before committing to something longer.
| Reading | Price |
|---|---|
| Single Card Intuitive Pull | $15 |
| 10-Min Intro Text Chat★ Special Offer | $20 |
| 5-Min Text Chat | $20 |
| 10-Min Text Chat | $35 |
| 15-Min Text Chat | $50 |
| 25-Min Text Chat | $75 |
| 10-Min Phone Reading | $40 |
| 15-Min Phone Reading | $60 |
| 30-Min Psychic Reading | $110 |
| Full Soul Reading 60 Min | $190 |
For grief and loss, a 15–25 minute text session or a 10–15 minute phone call gives enough time to read the full weight of what's present. Phone is often more natural for emotional situations.
Grief sits on questions that don't have easy answers, and no reading is going to change that. What it can do is cut through the noise and tell you what's actually present — so you're not carrying things that aren't real, and you're not dismissing things that are.
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